Hey what's up I'm a married 50 yr old bi guy looking to hook with others. I don't need to jump into your panties within the first hour of meeting - though that's not out of the question depending on prior talks and the level of our rapport ;D I see the value in forming a mutual connection to make everything more enjoyable, and lean towards something ongoing/semi-regular, or at least keeping in touch with the occasional meetup.
Friends to email and meet, and go from there.